You are So right, take control and design the life you want – nobody else will and you only have yourself to blame if you don’t !!

I am under going HUGE life changes: splitting with a partner, selling a beloved farm and at a cross roads – so if I can do this SO can you –

I know there is something better out there for me, it’s just going to be in a different place – a place that I decide what happens:)

Thank YOU for the great post and ideas – I will be a testament that you advice works:)