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July 2008 – ‘Enjoying the Quiet Moments’

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Editorial    Now that I’m in my wizened thirties, the enjoyment of the occasional ‘quiet moment’ is beginning to present some distinct advantages.  A mere ten minutes of quiet reading on the couch seems to restore my sense of equilibrium some days, and stepping outside to feel the sunlight on my face and inhale damp, earthy air during these winter months often brings me back to the present. 
This month Tim Shadbolt – Invercargill’s world famous Mayor – shares some surprisingly moving words about the importance of great ways to access stillness, no matter how busy you are; while hairdresser Nadia Sultan has created an oasis of pampering in her organic salon.  Our Wild Youth of the month – David Coffey – has probably interrupted a few of his parent’s quiet moments as he practices his drumming for the popular Christchurch band ‘The Insurgents’.  This month’s mentor, Auckland lifecoach  – Dairne Kirton – speaks out on the topic of the month.  Here we are in nature’s ‘quiet moment’ – mid-winter.  Even doing nothing has its place.  Wishing you a cosy, quiet month.

Charlotte Squire
Editor
Happyzine

               

Inspiring Kiwi –The Southern Mayor Tim Shadbolt is Invercargill’s beloved Mayor, and one of New Zealand’s longest serving activists and celebrities.  He’s also New Zealand’s longest serving Mayor, having reached his fifth term of Mayoralty.  Does this man ever have time for a quiet moment?

“I have to snatch them.  I always do, just before I give a speech, I like to breath a bit, sort of a puff of oxygen into the brain.  I just like to prepare myself.”

“I was going out to Bastian Point in the weekend – that was probably the cross roads for race relations in New Zealand, a very difficult and complex issue. There seemed to be zones around the place that inspire you to just reflect and for me Okahu Bay (there was just nobody on it) was an empty beach and just the ultimate in quietness really.  You just get that sound affect of the very small waves fading up on the sand and I think that’s where you prepare yourself, by thinking about what you’re going to say and about what the day’s events are going to be like.”
And how important are these quiet moments to Tim?
 “I think when you live a very sort of out-there life, a very public life, those moments of contemplation just help settle you down, help prepare you and are probably very helpful for you too, just to take a little break now and again.”
“And I think that’s what the great kiwi holiday’s all about.  We’re always trying to run and scramble and trying to keep up and it’s good to just get away from it every now and again in our lives.”
“Earnest Hemmingway said he never missed a dawn in his life and he was a novelist so he might have been exaggerating, but I know what he means, there is that magical sort of hour of twilight and dusk, the beginning and end of the day where every thing can often go quiet, even in quite busy places and that gives you time to think.” 
“I’ve found here in the South, a lot of guys who are good Southern men, they go deer hunting and trout fishing and duck shooting, but when you talk to them about it, it’s often just the time away, and just being in the bush and even if they don’t actually stumble across any deer, or catch a fish, they still come back satisfied.”
“I think we need to be close to the elements, to water and the sky and just as part of a balance of life, especially living the kind of industrial, scientific age that we live in these days we need to get out into the bush and the mountains for part of our mental health”.
“Even having to rough it a little bit is good. Maybe we don’t have to live our whole lives walking on tar seal or concrete, there are just times when we get closer to the earth, in every sense of the word.  I think there’s always this desire to get to the coast, and it’s not just swimming or fishing or recreational, I think it’s often that sort of point in the world where the land meets the ocean that has always been very attractive to us.”
And finally, what’s Tim’s ideal time-out experience?
“For me, there would have to be no cell phone reception possible, or internet, no mail service of any sort, for me the greatest luxury would be to be completely cut off from the world.  The second one, being a southerner, I’d love it to be warm; I’d go to a Pacific Island in the middle of nowhere.”  Charlotte Squire                    

Puls’n Planet – The Organic Hair Experience  I’m reclining in bliss as a dreadlocked Japanese hairdresser with the hands of an angel gently massages my scalp.  Laugher fills the room as Nadia Sultan, owner and manager of Amala Organic Hair Salon, chats with a client.  My gentle handed friend wraps a towel around my head and tells me it’s time to relocate to a chair.  I keep my eyes shut pray for a moment longer.  

At twenty six, Nadia’s leading a new age of hairdressing in Aotearoa/New Zealand.  Gone are the carcinogenic colours and tints and bleaches, they’ve been replaced by natural or organic vegetable bases and clays. 

 

I asked Nadia why she chose organic?

 

“Well for one it’s how I live my life.  I’ve been organic myself for about five years.  I started working in an eco-salon in Queensland and just learnt about it really.  I wasn’t aware that it was available till then and I thought ‘God, what have I been doing?   There’s just no other way really.  It’s biodegradable, good on the planet and good for us”.

 

So what are the ‘organic’ parts of her salon?  

 

“Every thing you can think of – what we paint the walls with, your tea and coffee and biscuits are organic, everything is either eco-friendly or organic wherever possible.  There are no carcinogens in the shop and there are heaps of vegan products.  It’s nice to work in.  I love it.”

 

Nadia says that a year after she first bought it, many people are still discovering Amala, despite zero advertising. 

 

“It was a really run down salon, I de-cluttered and de-chemicalled the place.”

 

Location plays a role in the success of Nadia’s salon.  She set up across the road from Christchurch’s well established organic shop – ‘Piko’.  Also very close by are herbal outlets, a shop full of retro gear, and a crystal store.

 

I asked Nadia if she started out with a vision.

 

“Well it’s kind of created itself.  I’ve got an awesome team of staff.  They’ve learnt a bit about organics, one of them has taken her kids off preservatives.” 

 

And what about the future?

 

“I would love to open another one, to spread the word in New Zealand.  There are a couple around the country but they haven’t done as much homework as I’ve done.  There are companies out there who are trying to sell so-called organic colour, but they’re petroleum based.  I’d like to get out there and just let people know …”

 

“Women colour their hair every four to six weeks!  Your skin absorbs eighty percent of whatever you put on it and hair dyes are a grade one carcinogen.  If you’re doing that every four weeks it’s quite detrimental to your health.  I think once you know better you couldn’t inflict that on somebody, I’d never do it again, not knowing what I do now.”

 

I emerged from Amala feeling gorgeous and pampered.  It was the best haircut I’d had in years and just knowing the hair products were organic added to my pleasure.  My prediction: in ten years time, salons like Nadia’s are going to be more mainstream than leading edge – as she says – once you know the facts, there’s no going back.

  Charlotte Squire              

 

 

 

 

Wild Youth – David Coffey    Nineteen year old David Coffey plays drums in the Christchurch based band ‘The Insurgents’.  He shares his advice about making your dreams into a reality and making the most of being young.    What makes you happy?
Lots of things, the people around me, my friends, my family.  The simple things, like achieving a goal, no matter how minor it is. This kind of keeps me sane, keeps me positive.  It keeps me looking towards the future instead of dwelling on what’s happening now.  It’s far easier to look towards the future, and to have something to work towards because I’m never as happy when I’m just static, when I’m not doing anything.
Who or what do you consider to be special in your life?
The people that surround me, my friends and family.  Music is a big thing.  I always try and make time to enjoy things.  Especially because I’m young, I try to have a good combination of fun things and boring things like doing work. 
Who or what gets you through the hard times and how?
Friends and stuff like that, but not always in a really obvious ‘lets have a talk about what’s bothering you’ way, just more being there and sort of keeping it real and just being normal, because you need that.  Maybe my mum’s the person who I talk to about problems but my friends – they just keep me normal, keep me sane. 
What do you dream of and what steps have you taken towards your dream?
Well, I dream of music.  And you know, I’ve been doing it for years and every time you play a show, make music, it feels real.  It feels like this could happen and every time we practice it just adds a little step towards what you want.  It’s gonna take a friggin long time and it’s a lot of effort and I have to work my ass off, ’cause I wanna go over seas like Chris is (my friend Chris in my band).  I currently just work my butt off and that’s the really hard reality thing.  It’s getting the dream and the reality thing and kind of combining the two.  I know a lot of people who talk about their dreams, and though they talk about it a lot, they’re not actually doing it.  They’ve got this dream, and transforming that dream into reality is the hard part.  It’s far easier for most people to just sit around and talk about it but the reality is, it’s really hard, you’ve gotta do it though.
What is the one thing you’d like to say to other youth about how to enjoy being young?
Don’t get to caught up in yourself.  Be yourself.  Don’t worry too much about what other people think about you.  Say what you think.  Be honest.
What is the one thing that you’d like to say to the world about being young?
Don’t you wish you were all young like us? Don’t ya?  You’re only young once and you’ve gotta get your money’s worth. The end.

Charlotte Squire 
 
           
 

Mentor – Dairne Kirton Are you enjoying your quiet moments?
This morning my daughter woke for school on the wrong side of the bed. Our morning started out rather confrontational, with me growling, and her moaning whilst rushing to get out the door in time for the school bell. I kissed her goodbye.
On returning to the kitchen I found myself in total silence – a very quiet moment. My body heaved a sigh of relief. I put on the kettle and made a cup of tea. Oh how I enjoy some mornings to sit in quietness for a moment.
Are you aware that living in the present moment is your personal strength and happiness? The past has been and gone. The future has not yet unfolded. Therefore the present is a gift.
‘How many of us actually are present in each moment?’ I wondered as I sat and sipped my cup of  tea. What does it mean to each of us to be able to enjoy a quiet moment?
How many of you find yourself in the present moment, yet focused on the future, rather than the  present?
I invite each of you to contemplate this. Are you holding yourself back from experiencing joy in your quiet moments, through what you have added onto an experience, and by what you now make it mean to you in this present moment?
Enjoying the quiet moments:
Dad says men enjoy the quiet moment in the toilet to read the newspaper undisturbed.
Mum says her Sunday evenings bath with bubbles and candles is her enjoying the quiet moments.
I read an article an elderly couple were enjoying the fact that they could sit without the need to talk. Allowing your spouse to know that it is ok and that you enjoy even their quiet company can be a strong statement of your love for them.
A child on his back watching the clouds rolls by.
A morning coffee all alone as the family have left for school and work after the rush.
My choice is to enjoy the quiet moments by being present with myself to know myself better.
Each one of us is worthy of enjoying our quiet moments. Dairne Kirton
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