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Is there an acid test for Truth? In a world dominated by Conspiracy theories, there seems to be lots of proof to indicate the end of civilization as we know it.

There are lots of people with emerging talents of the psychic and intuitive, who will tell you the most fabulous stories of alien manipulation of our small planet.

There seems to be Sixth Sense evidence for all kinds of things that predict terrible events even as we speak.

So is it true? How do we know? Because for every theory told by the sixth sense, there are theories of a more mundane kind.

For instance, the world financial crisis can be explained by vast manipulations of a small but powerful conglomerate of the very wealthy, whose prime motivation is
greed.

The Global financial crises can also be explained by the swinging market forces that rock capitalism in looping time cycles. So which do we believe?

It doesn’t matter! “Proof of Truth” I humbly submit, is the wrong determinator of reality. It seems to me that there is a better way to think about things.

And for me, the way of Kind Friendliness is by by far and away the better approach.   If Kind Friendliness operates within us, while considering any theory, concept, or
intuitively based understanding, then that is the only real proof I need.

I feel good a lot of the time, and when I do, life seems to move in healthy ways. All my relationships seem closer, compassion wakes, and I am comforted.

I am sometimes though griped with fear, waiting with a dreaded anticipation of bad things about to happen. Usually then, not much in my life works well, and things, life
if you will, seems totally out of whack.

So my way is to not bother with what’s real or true, but rather to pay more attention to all those ideas and theories and intuitions, in which I can see and feel, kind
friendliness!

It provides me with a wonderful way to run my life. I find that “Kind Friendliness”, is terrific decision making, steering tool.

I also find that the need for knowing what is true from what is not, has lost it’s Cache. It’s just not so important anymore. Kind Friendliness has made my life easier
somehow.

About the Author: Paul Smetana writes about the Simple Secrets of Being Touched by Life, How you can finally take control of your destiny, and the simple reason most
people fail.  In Aged Care for 30 years, he has discovered How our most successful Elders Attained “A Life worth Living”. One Brimming with vitality and Joy. And how
easily you can too, without waiting any longer.  For Instant Access to more Articles, e-books, and Resources on Living your best Life, Visit www.betouchedbylife.com

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